Pasuing...

It's so easy to talk. To write. To just speak off the back of our heads. But we never really know the consequences, or rather we do not really care about the consequences.

We've all spoken bad about people, talked behind their backs, back stabbed and even caused someone some harm in someway. But yet, we hate it when we come across people who do it. I have fallen into this category before, and I know as much as it sounds bad on me, everyone else has done it before.

So why am I talking about this today? Have I done something wrong? Nope. Or at least not that I know of. But the thing is, we say so many things everyday and we never stop to wonder how what we say will affect someone. Take for example when you are all alone in a sardine-packed train and someone steps on your foot. You're pissed and tells him off. Yes, he deserved it. But wait till the crowd is gone, and the air-conditioning is blowing gently on you face. And imagine him stepping on your foot again. It's more likely that you would say it's alright and suffer in silence, saving your pride and his.

Now, I'm writing about this today because we never know what we say might hurt someone close or distant away from ourselves. If I've said something and made you mad, sad or any other negative connotations, I'm sorry. And I beg your pardon.

Maybe this post might help you reflect on how life works sometimes. Perceptions are the realities of people, but realities might not be your perception. So take a pause, breath and think before doing or saying anything, it might just make everyone's day better (including your own).